By: Lovely Del Mundo
Many women want to be a JUNE Bride. I don’t know the exact reason why they want to be a June Bride. Is there really significance about that? Is it tradition? Some will prefer February because it’s the Valentine’s month. Some will prefer December because it’s Christmas time. I think month isn’t really the issue here. People just tend to follow the bandwagon when it comes to wedding events because it’s also about business.
My view about marriage didn’t change. It’s still sacred and really precious. But, it carries a lot of sacrifices and acceptance in the long run. It’s the greatest gift you’ll receive from a man. When a man is serious about being with you for life, he will marry you for sure. My mom will always tell that. Some women of my age live with a man they’re not married to but they do have a child already. The term called about a couple with a child but not married is “lived-in”. In America, lived-in is not really a big deal. They are more liberated unlike in Asia. They’re opinion about that is they live together under a roof as a trial if it doesn’t work out then they’ll break-up or if it do work out, it can lead to marriage. I think it’s okay as long as you’re in the right age already and not depending to your parents anymore with your basic necessities like food, clothes and house. But, the down side here is don’t expect too much from your partner because he’s not officially tied with you yet so there’s a higher chance for you to separate.
Are you curious about my thoughts about being in-a-relationship with the opposite sex? I think I haven’t blog about it yet. Well, I am going to share it with you in this blog post. ^^ I had a bad experience about being in a relationship before. I was abandoned and fooled. I am too innocent that time because it’s my first time. I have this child-like personality too so it was really like a culture shock for me. (plus..He’s a foreigner) There came a point where I didn’t believe in romance anymore. I became a realist now. #bitter #ampalaya #whogoat
On the other hand, I’m not closing my doors with love. Love is a wonderful thing. Love is beautiful. Love is a gift from God. I believe that the man meant for me will come at the right time and place. ^^ Since the title of this blog is “relationship goals”, I will state the things I consider in a relationship.
Personally, My forever favorite couple is the “Ice Cream Couple” (Lie To Me: Angela and Kenneth). I’m fond of watching Korean dramas. This is my favorite love story. You can read my review about the drama I like the most here: Lie To Me. I have this vibes that this kind of relationship set up will happen to me.
He can shout to the whole world how much he loves me. He doesn’t care what other people think about us. He can accept the story about my tragic past. He believes in our relationship and cares a lot about me.
Even though he’s busy at work, he will always make time to meet and even play with me. He loves my company. He will always make a way to make me smile and laugh.
We can eat anything together. We will venture with different culture and cuisine. You can spot us on cozy and classy restaurants or even a food market/ bazaar.
I can be fierce like this to him. HAHA! He’s a real man….period!
We’ll have many couple pictures in different places. (He must love travel) Definitely we’ll have different poses and scenes as well…*wink*
He’s tall and strong enough to carry me when I’m tired. >.<
Of course, He can see me in his future. He has plans marrying me. He believes that marriage is the real proof of love with a woman as a man. He wants to build a family with me.
That’s all. I don’t need that super handsome, rich, famous and genius guy. (I am sure he’s a conceited jerk) All I need is a decent guy who has a good heart that genuinely loves and cares about me. I don’t really go for a high standard because nobody is perfect. But, I do have some basic preferences like I want tall, neat, optimistic and wealthy. :p I hope I can meet him when I am already prepared with all the aspect I need to become a deserving girlfriend/wife/mom. I don’t want to be involved in a relationship and yet I am blank/empty. I am wiser now too.
I want to share these songs about love:
Above all, this is love all about: